Hi there,
The answer is simple: Pick me :P
Jokes aside, I'm sorry to hear about your experience and I promise you not all coaches are like that! Additionally, no one size fits all.
I actually think it's really simple to find the right coach. You just have to talk to them!
- Find a few coaches that catch your eye.
- Send them a message and ask about their approach and what sessions might look like.
- Moreover, you can always ask to have a quick call before comitting to a session.
- Finally, don't be afraid to target coaches slightly outside of your price range - many offer introductory/bundle discounts and might be willing to bring down the price given your situations.
Good luck! With a bit of research you'll find a better fit.
To answer your more specific questions:
How do I know what works for others will work for me?
It won't necessarily! There are different learning and teaching styles. Different things work for different people (which is why I personally adjust massively based on who I'm coaching).
For you though, you should 1) Have an intro call and 2) Book 1 coaching session first to test the waters
I've hired coaches for public speaking and foreign language learning. Honestly, not much help.
Different sectors will be different. I know I'm “biased”, but case coaching is seriously beneficial. The numbers speak for themselves.
Also, should I hire someone in my own region as opposed to other continents?
In terms of cultural fit/communication…maybe
In terms of them somehow knowing best for that region…nope. There are not major differences across regions, and, regardless, the top coaches understand these nuances. (Please remember what matters is the skills learned and the case ability…every region wants “the same”)