How Can You Best Control Your Lifestyle in Consulting?
Understand What Your Core Needs Are.
These might be early finishes on Fridays, remote work on Mondays, and meals at certain hours. Make these boundaries clear and measurable. Respect these boundaries yourself and communicate them to your team and your manager.
Discover When You Are Most Productive.
Some people focus better in the mornings, while others prefer the evenings. Some prefer a team room format, others would rather work in a cubical. Reflect on what works best for you and seek to maximize the potential of every hour. If you are not needed, don’t linger in the team room and do pretend work at 1 am. Nobody stands to win from this.
Focus on One Thing at a Time.
Multi-tasking is a mirage from a different generation. If you want to churn out good content at a fast speed you can only do it by working intensely, unfocused, on one thing at a time.
Speak Up and Be Honest.
The obligation to dissent is one of the key values within consulting. You are not only allowed, but expected to highlight to the team your disagreement and present your reasoning regardless of the seniority of those around you.
Say No.
Don’t seek to satisfy everybody, but rather understand what is the right thing to do or the important thing to focus on. You might not make everybody happy along the way, but this will be a winning strategy, in the long run, bringing around you like-minded people with similar values and working styles.
Grow Your Own Clan.
Find within your firm colleagues who have similar interests and play an active role to help each other grow. This will not only help develop your knowledge and increase your chances of getting staff on the projects you want but also have fun along the way.
Don't Oversell Yourself.
Don’t tell the staffing manager that you are a modeling genius if you are only average. While it might help you get staffed faster, you’ll only end up stressed and working long hours to compensate for your inability. You’re also more likely to disappoint this way despite your best efforts.
Focus on an Industry or Topic Early on.
Developing industry or functional knowledge can help you become a go-to expert even at an Associate or equivalent level. It will also help you manage your time better since you will always have a clearer understanding of the content and the ability to find a quicker approach to solving a problem.
All of this being said, long hours remain one of the main reasons why consultants leave the industry. That is why now more than ever consulting firms are putting in a massive effort to retain people by addressing lifestyle issues. However, at the end of the day, you deserve and are responsible to help yourself. You must identify what is sustainable for you over the long run and what enables you to have a satisfying career. Then try to go beyond the fear of saying no and the imagined consequences of protecting your boundaries. Being straight about what you need might not turn everybody around into friends, but will help you find like-minded people with similar values about what is healthy work culture.