Hello,
I would like to know if it is common or acceptable to ask for a moment to think before answering fit questions—for example, “Tell me about a time when you had to manage a conflict.”
Kind regards,
Hello,
I would like to know if it is common or acceptable to ask for a moment to think before answering fit questions—for example, “Tell me about a time when you had to manage a conflict.”
Kind regards,
In my view, it’s ok to think for a couple of seconds but not for too long.
Interviewers at most firms will expect you to have prepared stories to answer these kinds of questions, rather than coming up with it on the spot.
Hi there,
Yes, it's absolutely fine.
Typically, most candidates don't take this time because one story pops immediately to mind out of the ones they prepared. But if you do take a few seconds to think nobody counts that against you.
If you're preparing for the PEI, you might also find the following guide I've created useful:
Best,
Cristian
Hi,
I agree with Mihir. As an interviewer, I’d expect you to be well-prepared for these standard fit questions. It’s completely fine to take a few seconds to collect your thoughts—saying something like “Let me think” works well.
That said, responses should come promptly and ideally follow a clear structure to demonstrate both preparation and communication clarity.
I coach candidates on the fit part of the interview, and I strongly encourage you not to underestimate its importance—it’s often a key differentiator.
Hey,
It is fine to take some time to think, especially for behavioral questions, those that start with "Tell me about a time when you..."
Use the time not only to come up with an idea but to structure your response as much as possible.
Quick tips:
1. Avoid staying silent for too long
2. Ask for time in a polite and friendly way. You can say "Can you allow me a few moments to think of a relevant example?"
I hope this helps! Good luck and please reach out if you want me to review your sample answers!
Hello there,
If it’s a couple of seconds, sure - ideally you would have the stories on the tip of your tongue as a sign of preparedness.
If you would like to work with a coach to make sure those stories stand out and are MBB ready, feel free to reach out.
Best,
Mari