Hi there,

I'm going to say two seemingly contradictory things.

1) I'm really sorry. That's a terrible experience and shouldn't happen.

2) Suck it up - welcome to life and welcome to a professional career (especially in consulting)

Now, it does sound like you handled yourself well - that's good! As long as you kept your cool, answered her calmly, and did not show her that you were annoyed, you should be just fine!

If you didn't do that, well, you're going to need to work on it. You're going to have clients saying crazy/frustrating stuff to you when you're exhausted. You're going to have a Project Lead or Partner cutting you off, directing you to things you don't expect or want to do at 11pm after a 15 hour day. If you cannot handle this recruiter call, reflect on if you want to deal with things like that as part of the job!

Now, onto a few comments you've made.

She did not ask me to introduce myself nor did she ask me why I would like to join S&. I had prepared for everything in short and crisp manner.

Why does she have to do this? It doesn't matter what you prepared. You need to be ready for anything. What she wants, what the interviewer wants, what the client wants, is all more important than what you prepared. 

“No plan survives first contact with the enemy”

The first question she asked was why I am leaving my current firm and while I was answering that in 3 pointers, she was like please tell me 1 point in one word as she had another call in next few minutes, then I ask her to repeat one question and she scolded me like I had done some serious crime and then she was like I have very limited time and cannot repeat questions and for the rest of the call she was just shouting at me like anything for no reason at all

This is certainly rude of her and frustrating - I get it! However, sounds like you were talking for too long and being too wordy. She wanted you to get to the point - this is important in consulting!

I'm sorry you were yelled at - this is certainly a her problem (stressed, tired, etc.) not a you problem. But this is going to happen…you just need to “bury” it and not show it on your face when this happens in the future.

I feel I will not get the interview this time for no fault of mine.

I actually think you might be fine! As long as you kept cool and adjusted when she asked, you will be fine. As in, if you ended up giving her short/sharp responses for example, then you should be ok!

I have been on many screening calls but this one was the worst. Should I reach out to my referrer and explain him this situation? Will he able to do something? I really want to get into S& and in this particular office as I have spoken to around 15 people in the deals team and really like the culture.

I would wait 1 week. See if you end up getting invited. If you don't, then ask your referrer if they can hop on a quick call with you. Please don't try to email/message the situation as it will be impossible to get across what you're trying to say without sounding negative!